WarpGirl wrote:This is where my virgin brain wonders that if two people have a solid emotional relationship and good communication, how can any sex be "bad" or less than ideal? Isn't the LOVE the element that makes sex truly wonderful?
PS I really DO NOT want an answer.
Uh . . . no, I can't talk about it. LOL . . .
OK, let me put it this way . . . (stealing from a comedian) . . . bad sex is like bad pizza. It's still pizza. That is, it's still pretty good!
So anyway, I'm suspicious of the extremely romantic ideal. For instance, I had my Trip doze off after the act right in the middle of a conversation with T'Pol. That type of thing. Do people have room to be themselves in a solid relationship? To not be optimal at all times? I hope so.