Dinah wrote:I want to pose a question, but my goal is not to start a fight or make anyone uncomfortable. Ever since Rigil started this story, I've wondered if the story would have followed a similar path if she had crashed with Archer, Reed, Mayweather, or some other male from the crew.
This is actually going to come up at some point in the future because truthfully, Trip wouldn't be Trip if he didn't wonder the same thing. Is it just a proximity thing? Does she actually care for me as much as I care for her? Hell, can she care as much for me as I care for her? If she'd crashed here with the cap'n or Malcolm, would they be semi-involved with her? Etc.
This is a situation where there is no real expectation on their part that they will ever see Enterprise again. Would T'Pol grow as close to the other man as she'd grown to Trip?
In a word: No.
The only character who I could conceivably she her potentially getting romantically involved with in a situation like this is, unfortunately, Archer because they stated in canon that she did respect him (even if I very rarely saw him do anything worthy of said respect.) Fortunately (or unfortunately, depending upon your opinion), though, I think that such an event wouldn't happen in this case because Archer has shown time and time again a predilection for not listening to other people, so he would tilt against some windmills early in this story and get himself (and/or T'Pol) dead. Truthfully, if it wasn't for the character shield that most Main Characters are issued for the show, I doubt Archer would have survived midway through the first season because he didn't listen to other people. So, rather than cooperating with T'Pol, he would order her around, even if she possessed superior skills and talents, which would lead to Very Bad Things.
In the case of both Malcolm and Travis, she is also their superior officer, so rather than challenging her on the level of an equal (ala Trip), they would be looking at her for instructions or guidance, and being a good Vulcan, she would strive to maintain this level of distance. Sure, Reed might admire her bum, and Travis could theoretically develop a deep-rooted crush on her, but they made a point of establishing that Malcolm is an emotional coward ("Shuttlepod One") and Mayweather ... well, he's too much of a blank slate to really say anything about. The same holds true of any other junior officer or enlisted man - I actually sort of lampshaded this very early in the story where Trip reflected that he was glad he was down here with T'Pol since anyone junior to him (which is everyone but Archer or Polly) would be looking to him for answers or direction. So while she might end up respecting them and having some affection for them, I don't think it would ever be as strong as her affection for Trip (hell, she was acting jealous of Tucker in the second or third episode of the series! Did she even care what Malcolm or Travis did in their off-time?)
If not, what does Trip offer that the other might not? "They're meant to be together" isn't really an answer.
From the beginning, Trip refused to not challenge T'Pol, and I assert that he earned her respect in the pilot (even if he backslid to jackassery on occasion.) As indicated by the show, they make a helluva team - complimentary skillsets, compatible personalities ... usually (I totally agree with Alelou that T'Pol would eventually drive Archer insane which is why AinTers don't really make sense to me), and an ability to constantly challenge each other's preconceptions on a daily basis. I've never seen anything similar between T'Pol and any other character on ENT. Archer brings a lot of braggadocio, an overly headstrong and obdurate personality, some piloting sikills (wasted in this locale) and fair to middling diplomatic skills (depending on who is writing him that day.) Reed is a security guy and ex-spook; every one of his skills, T'Pol already possesses so he's redundant. Mayweather brings some piloting skills (also wasted), a Boomer background (wasted), and a nice smile ... plus, if you'll notice, they haven't run into any blacks (or whatever the PC term of the week is - I'll have to check with my black roommate) on this continent (which is intentional based on my mental image of the Earth location analogue), so he might actually draw more problems. Phlox ... well, he'd be a whole mess of problems. So Trip is the ideal partner here.
But then, I'm biased.
And, like the cylons in nuBSG (before the show went batshit insane in season 3), I have a plan.