Alelou wrote:Yeah, but I think of guys as being extremely VISUAL and I don't see most women being that way -- we're more into emotional crap and the relationship and stuff. Although judging from the way some of my home girls were drooling over Federer and Nadal this weekend, I may be completely wrong about that.
You're speaking to one of those statistical exceptions, but you're kind of missing my point, too. It's the same thing but in different mediums. Men
do tend toward the visual, hence porn. Women tend toward the communicative/literal, hence fic. It's the same exact fantasy, from either side, but it's manifesting in marginally different ways. (Abstract imagery is abstract imagery, whether it's a video or a piece of writing). Also, scientfically proven trufax, women fantasize about sex as often as men do - the idea it's men who predominantly visualize is a myth.