Asso wrote:Could this old saying sound a little too much masculinist?
If she's older, you must fear her.
If she's younger, you must love her.
LOL. Maybe because older women often won't put up with shit the way younger women will?
I think it's mostly biological. Attraction is hard-wired into us as a function of the drive for procreation. Guys are not likely to be too attracted in a serious longterm way to a female who has passed or looks close to passing childbearing age. One guy in my writing group put it this way: "Why wouldn't you pick the one with the later expiration date?" And I also read about some research that shows men are definitely attracted by certain beautiful features -- so much so that over time women are becoming more beautiful, because those women are more likely to mate successfully.
Men don't have that same age restriction on reproduction, and it probably gets confused with their ability to provide for a family, though I think most women are going to at least want a man who's still spry enough to, say, lift their kids, or scare off a bear. That same research shows that wealth trumps looks in terms of success at mating for men. (And, as a result, men are not getting more beautiful.)