Just to back up Aquarius, nobody is saying anyone can't like a pairing or any other aspect of the show. The new rules are designed to keep the tone respectful - and keep out trolls. Unfortunately, our little community got a reputation (somewhat unfairly) for being a haven for trolls and bashers - and we admins all agreed that had to change. I think part of the problem is that it's very difficult to be rude while your praising, all too easy to slip into vitriol when you are being negative. I've done it myself - and been properly warned by my fellow mods. Yes, we tell each other to cool it from time to time.
Basically, we want TnT fans of all stripes, even casual ones, to feel comfortable here. We got a lot of feedback saying that wasn't the case and we truly believe that the more TnT fans who feel comfortable participating here the more lively and fun the conversation will be.
I mean, for me, I'm a TnT shipper all the way. Other ENT pairings remain fluid curiosities for me. I wrote Reed/Sato into one of my stories - but I never shipped them onscreen and I am not sure I ever felt real chemistry between them. In Family Secrets, I had people actively shipping for Hoshi and an OC character who was causing trouble between R/S. That was flattering and wonderful. But, just because I had that experience -I wouldn't want to metaphorically go kick the shins of R/S fans - and I've enjoyed a good R/S story by a good writer. Chemistry is in the eye of the beholder, often. I'd love to talk about the merits of R/S with one of their shippers and have a conversation rather than a flame war.
I also wrote a Reed/Amanda Cole Romance into Dusk - and I think that was a more successful pairing - just the way I wrote it.
For me, it was simply too much Archer and not enough of the other characters.
SB, your entire post is a textbook example of how to respectfully express a negative opinion. There's nothing wrong with your tone, and you've backed up your opinion with evidence. Someone might disagree, but you haven't insulted or demeaned that person.
(edited to add: SB's post has been moved the the Archer as Captain Thread)