honeybee wrote:It's curious as to why she didn't try to break off the engagement beforehand, the way T'Pol did, but perhaps she did succumb to social pressure. Or perhaps she is just cold and thought the challenge was the easiest way to get rid of Spock.
I'd thought about that too. I'd imaged a few scenarios but the one that seems most likely is that she expected to have more time but didn't thanks to Spock's relatively early pon-farr (37). Also there's the possibility that she'd just started a relationship with Stonn and didn't have the time to change things with Spock before his first pon-farr.
SB, here's a chilling thought. Perhaps the reason why they form the bond at such a young age is because the Vulcan brain is still developing and they manipulate it to "want" their betrothed. I think I got a shiver just thinking about that one.
I think I'll keep to the idea that it's to ensure the needs of a freakishly young pon-farr (early twenties) will be provided for, but sadly it still doesn't cut it.